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While my home-base is in Colorado—on the stolen, ancestral lands of the Arapaho, Ute, and Cheyenne tribes—I work with people and communities across the Dreaming Earth. You can send me a digital howl using the button below. If you want to know about upcoming workshops, groups, and in-person events sign up for my newsletter below, connect with me on instagram, check out my substack, or explore my Events & Offerings page.

 

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The Heart Is a Frontline: Politicized Grief Ritual The Heart Is a Frontline: Politicized Grief Ritual Leadership training. How is this *politicized* grief ritual training different from other trainings?
It’s hard to express how much my dead siblings, Iv It’s hard to express how much my dead siblings, Ivy and Brett, shape how I show up and the grief work I offer, especially politicized, liberatory grief work. 

When you can’t love someone in physical form anymore, you begin loving the people, places, and art they loved even more. The music, the creatures, the things that kept them alive, that brought them alive. 

There was a time when grief felt like love with nowhere to go. That’s not what it is for me anymore. My grief is my love liberated. It informs what I practice, what I teach, who I love, how I stay, what I fight for, and what I co-create. 

Thank you, Ivy. Thank you, Brett. Thank you, grievers. Thank you, Soul. 

XO, H 🌈🫏🧙🏻‍♀️

*These slides are an excerpt from my latest essay, check it out you know where.
“Look for the tenders” has been bouncing around an “Look for the tenders” has been bouncing around and inside me for the past two days. Inspired by Mr. Rogers saying, “Look for the helpers.” 

What and who are each of us tending? What and where do we need to be tended?

Thanks to all my tender friends. 

XO, H 🌈🫏🧙🏻‍♀️
Let’s crowdsource bringing politicized grief work Let’s crowdsource bringing politicized grief work into every community. If just ten percent of the people who followed me here contributed eight d*llars we’d pass our goal. Let’s see what we can make possible together. 

XO, H 🌈🫏🧙🏻‍♀️
This dynamic is not new to me. As my work grows, i This dynamic is not new to me. As my work grows, it’s becoming even more absurd. If you have time to tell on me, you have time to go to a protest, fund mutual aid, or organize your community. 

XO, H 🌈🫏🧙🏻‍♀️
We can choose to become human again. XO, H 🌈🫏🧙🏻‍ We can choose to become human again. 

XO, H 🌈🫏🧙🏻‍♀️
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