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While my home-base is in Colorado—on the stolen, ancestral lands of the Arapaho, Ute, and Cheyenne tribes—I work with people and communities across the Dreaming Earth. You can send me a digital howl using the button below or by emailing support@hollytruhlar.com. If you want to know about upcoming workshops, groups, and in-person events sign up for my newsletter below, connect with me on instagram, check out my substack, or explore my Events & Offerings page.

 

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These posts are from my latest essay, “There is These posts are from my latest essay, “There is No Safety Under Empire: Reflections on Resistance, Liberatory Grief, and Love.” The full essay has a ton of informative links and footnotes. It also has a follow-up from my open letter to my students when I was removed for naming the g—cide. You know where to find it. I’m writing more long form these days, so join me over there if you want more. Tagging the folks I quoted here so you can easily find them: @noorkhindi @sim_bookstagrams_badly @k.w.bogen iamlaurachung (unable to tag) May we all root down with Soul, and rise up in solidarity—today, tomorrow, and every day. XO, H 🌈🫏🧙🏻‍♀️ . . . #EmergentStrategy #TheWildEdgeOfSorrow #LiberatoryGrief #PoliticizedGrief #CollapsePsychology #Polycrisis #HeavenLooksLikeUs #SoulWork #ChrisHedges #NoamChomsky #GriefWork #CollectiveLiberation
As we descend further into collapse and the Long D As we descend further into collapse and the Long Dark, the skills of rupture and repair will only become more essential. Many of us are already carrying betrayal, abandonment, moral injury, hurt, and harm. How do we mitigate harm and open pathways toward healing? What do we owe one another? How do we build belonging in times of rupture? We live in a culture full of unconscious rituals of exile and punishment, what are our rituals of repair? What might shift if we knew how to grieve the violence and harm we’re inside of and enacting? This October–December in Soulful Life, we’ll gather in a soul-centered space to explore abolitionism, transformative justice, the Sixth Gate of Grief, and compassionate accountability. Together we’ll work with the Predator archetype and the Punisher-part within us. Through ritual, we’ll feel into its deeper needs and practice sacrificing more of what keeps us separate and less of each other. We’ll be co-held by Cassandra Lam @Collective_Rest, Naila Francis @ThisHallowedWilderness, and me. And, @KaiChengThom will join us as a guest guide for several weeks, bringing her unique blend of community care, depth psychology, and Deep Democracy work. If you’re feeling called, applications are open now. DETAILS ABOUT MENDING THE WEB: COMMUNAL PRACTICES FOR RUPTURE, REPAIR, AND BELONGING Soulful Life October–December Series Wednesdays, 12:30–2:00pm PT / 3:30–5:00pm ET Applications open through mid-October Co-Guides: Naila Francis, Cassandra Lam, Kai Cheng Thom, and Holly Truhlar PS: I’m especially grateful that Soulful Life members voted for this series. It takes courage to say: we don’t quite know how to do this, but we know this matters to our souls. Let’s learn together. . . . #SoulfulLife #TheWildEdgeOfSorrow #GriefRituals #TransformativeJustice #IHopeWeChooseLove #Abolitionism #RuptureAndRepair #WeWillNotCancelUs #TheLongDark #CollapsePsychology #ClimatePsychology #Polycrisis #CulturalRepair #CompassionateAccountability #SoulWork
This is my response to so much of what’s unfolde This is my response to so much of what’s unfolded this week. I don’t have any hot takes because I’m trying not to add to the onslaught of commentary and disconnected emotions flooding us daily. I’m also not asking anyone to grieve anyone or anything that’s not genuinely breaking their heart, we each have our own multitude of ruptures and relationships to grieve. Most of my extra energy (what’s not gobbled up by trying to survive end-capitalism and Empire) goes into tending deep-time relationships. That’s the only way out of this collective nightmare. Here’s to tending village and the fierce practice of relational rupture and repair. XO, H 🌈🫏🧙🏻‍♀️ . . . #PolyCrisis #ForTheWild #EmergentStrategy #TheWildEdgeOfSorrow #CollapsePsychology #MutualAid #GriefWork #GriefRitual #MendingTheWeb
I’m so sick of not being able to have complex co I’m so sick of not being able to have complex conversations about complex and critical topics, and I don’t appreciate being berated by man-people with large platforms when I/we are asking reasonable questions. For me, this is about asking how we ethically navigate the collapse of Empire and critically evaluate programs like Chorus. I have mixed feelings about this and need more clarity on how Chorus actually functions before forming a fuller opinion. Some creators say they’re free to be critical of anyone they choose and make any content they want while in the program, and I hope that’s true. The contract they signed says the opposite. I believe creators deserve to be at choice and get paid for their work. I also believe the public deserves to understand who’s funding and shaping our public discourse (even if it’s not standard practice in our current system). This isn’t about blame or shame toward individuals. It’s about discernment and asking deeper questions about how power, money, and narrative-control are operating in these times of polycrisis and rising fascism, and what that means for those of us who are committed to building freer futures. Also, I want to note that I am not an attorney. I have a doctorate in law, a JD, which means I graduated law school. Technically, I am a lawyer but not an attorney. Meaning I’ve never taken the bar and thus have never passed the bar. I do have an extensive legal background, have read and edited thousands of contracts in my life, and read contracts with a legal mindset. Last and always: Free Palestine. May those aboard the Freedom Flotilla break the siege. May blessings and spells ride the waves with them. May food, water, and love flow freely to the people of Palestine. XO, H 🌈🫏🧙🏻‍♀️ PS: I welcome conversation, but if people can’t be respectful and thoughtful, I’ll restrict or close comments. . . . #EmergentStrategy #Polycrisis #CollapsePsychology #FreedomFlotilla #NeuroQueer #AntiCapitalism #ClimateCrisis #IndependentMedia #ProtectJournalists #ISurvivedLawSchool
Like most people I know, I am making decisions tha Like most people I know, I am making decisions that are hard and scary. I’m discerning how to stay human in these times of collapse and extreme violence. What I know is that, at the end of this life, nothing I’ve done will matter if it wasn’t relational and soulful. Free Palestine. XO, H 🌈🫏🧙🏻‍♀️ PS: If you’ve chosen more material stability and later seek deeper meaning in soul-centered, liberation-based spaces, generously share the resources you’ve accumulated. Thank you! . . . #EmergentStrategy #TheWildEdgeOfSorrow #GriefWork #SoulWork #CollapsePsychology #Polycrisis #CommunityOrganizing #MutualAid
This isn’t a pro-AI or anti-AI post. It’s a pr This isn’t a pro-AI or anti-AI post. It’s a pro-community & anti-Empire post. At its heart, this is about belonging, liberation, and how we can actually take care of each other in the face of so much loneliness and emptiness. It’s also about being deeply honest in these times of collapse. To clarify what’s in these slides: I know some partnerships, including marriages, are beautiful & contribute to the communal well-being. And I know marriage within patriarchy privileges a very narrow kind of relationship that doesn’t work for so many of us. Also (bit of a side note), I believe that when *some* people talk about polyamory, what they’re really longing for is village, or even more deeply, animistic lifeways. Mostly, I want to build compassion for people who are lonely & under-resourced (which I believe is the majority of us). AI is highlighting this reality. What I’m not interested in is extreme, binary thinking about AI that strips dignity from people reaching for it in their loneliness, while ignoring the reality that AI is already woven into our world & will widen its reach (our “opponents” are absolutely leveraging AI). What I am interested in are more nuanced conversations, like: What are the true impacts of AI (many are over-exaggerated, some are not)? What feels like ethical use of AI (if any), what doesn’t? How can we resist capitalist consumption & supremacy-shaped relating, and instead support the building of living relationships and village, so people aren’t forced to rely on AI for companionship? Could AI, in some cases, actually support movements for collective liberation? Since we live in an animistic world, is AI ensouled, or a reflection of our soul-loss? Or both?? Shout out to my chronically ill & neuroqueer friends who stayed with me in the extreme depths of the underworld. And may those who abandoned, betrayed, and exploited me during that time learn how to be in the dark with others, and find the medicine of rupture and repair. XO, H 🌈🫏🧙🏻‍♀️ PS: This is the longest set of slides I’ve ever made, & I don’t know how this format will land. We’ll see. . . . #Neuroqueer #Collapse #Polycrisis #GriefWork #SoloPoly #Spoonie #SoulWork
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